Tag: BDSM
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GGG: Giving and Game, yes, but Good???
How can anyone label themselves good in the abstract? Photo by Michael Prewett on Unsplash I have a problem with the label GGG that I see so often in dating profiles on the dating apps. This label means Good, Giving, and Game. It was coined by sex columnist Dan Savage. I get that diligent people…
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Clipped Wings
An ex-partner of mine asked me to fly with clipped wings. I declined the offer. Photo by Raindrops Photography on Unsplash I’m tired. I’m tired of encountering people who don’t know what they want, and who don’t know what polyamory is or have a contorted opinion of what it is. I’m damn tired. You need…
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I No Longer Recommend Feeld
The powers that be killed the golden goose. If you’ve already read this article, please read the updates at the bottom. They are eye-opening. I’ve complained about the state of Feeld before. Namely, in this article: Well… it’s gone from bad to worse. Feeld used to be the application I’d recommend for the gender and…
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Our Relationship And Our Sex Was Divine
On the first anniversary of our breakup, I reflect on a relationship that was divine, before becoming hellish. Someone who is sexually immature cannot blame their partner when the sex is okay but not amazing. This is a realization I had today. Who was sexually immature? Me. However, I’ve grown during the past two years,…
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My Style of Domination, And What I Expect From My Subs
I’m going to explain how I dominate my subs, and what I want from them. You need to be logged in to view the rest of the content. Please Log In. Not a Member? Join Us
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Access to NSFW Content
This site will from time to time put out NSFW content. What is NSFW? The definition is arbitrary, but for me NSFW include explicit discussion of BDSM, sex, techniques regarding these two topics, etc. The mere mention of BDSM, or of certain roles within the BDSM community, is not enough to make an article NSFW.…
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The Latest Feeld Update Is A Complete Shitshow
I guess testing is something that only dogs do, right? If you don’t know, Feeld is an application for people who are into BDSM, couples looking for unicorns, or people with unusual desire. I use it because I’m into BDSM. This is the dating platform on which I’ve had the most success so far. I’m…
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Ableist As Fuck: “Real-Life Dating Is Better Than Online Dating”
It ignores the very real problem that minorities face in dating. I was at an event last Friday. Towards the end of the event, I was talking to one guy. He was asking about my dates, and at some point he said something to the effect of (paraphrasing): You found people with the online apps,…
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Of Caregiver Doms And Masochistic Flies
A masochistic fly asks about caregiver Doms. https://spectra.video/w/4szpH1Es7udqCV1EaW3cPj